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Our Life Transitions Counselling Services

Navigate life’s biggest transitions with a counsellor who specialises in exactly what you’re facing. Kotone Frankowski, a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor with over five years of experience, helps people move through career changes, relationship shifts, grief, and identity questions with real clarity and emotional support. Her approach combines care informed by trauma research with practical life coaching, so you’re not just processing emotions, you’re building skills to move forward. She uses Internal Family Systems work, cognitive behavioural methods, and acceptance and commitment therapy, tailored to what actually works for you. Sessions are available online throughout British Columbia, and coverage may be available based on your individual insurance policy with providers like Canada Life, Green Shield Canada, Manulife, SunLife, and Pacific Blue Cross. Start with a free 20-minute conversation to discuss what you’re navigating and how she can help.

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Understanding Life Transitions: Why Support Matters Right Now

Life transitions hit differently when you’re carrying unresolved pain from your past. A career change feels overwhelming. A relationship shift triggers old fears. A move to a new city amplifies loneliness. What should feel like growth instead feels like drowning. Our Life Transitions Counselling at Turning Tides serves clients across British Columbia who recognize that moving forward requires more than willpower. It requires understanding why change feels so hard, and having someone trained to help you process both the practical and emotional sides of what’s happening.

We work with the reality that transitions aren’t just about logistics. They’re about identity, safety, and what you believe is possible for yourself. That’s why our approach begins with care informed by trauma research. We use Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), somatic approaches, and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to help you understand your reactions and build genuine confidence in your ability to adapt. You’re not learning coping skills in a vacuum. You’re learning them while we address what’s underneath the anxiety, the self-doubt, or the grief that often shows up during major life changes.

What makes this different is the integration of life coaching alongside counselling. We help you discover what actually matters to you during this transition, not what you think should matter. We work through self-esteem challenges that emerge when your identity shifts. We support couples navigating relationship changes together. And we create space for you to ask the harder questions: Who am I becoming? What do I want my life to look like on the other side of this change? Sessions are available online and tailored to your pace, with coverage available through major insurance providers based on your individual policy.

The real shift happens when you stop seeing transitions as something you have to survive and start seeing them as something you can actually move through with intention and support.

What Is Life Transitions Counselling?

Life Transitions Counselling at Turning Tides Counselling & Life Coaching helps you navigate major life changes with support grounded in understanding how past experiences shape your present. Whether you’re facing a career shift, relationship change, grief, or questions about who you’re becoming, our Registered Therapeutic Counsellor works with you to process emotions, rebuild confidence, and discover what matters most in this new chapter. We use evidence-based approaches including Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing, Polyvagal Theory, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help you move through transitions with clarity and resilience. Our care is informed by trauma research, recognising that life changes often stir up old wounds alongside new possibilities. You’ll work at your own pace through virtual sessions, with between-session email support to keep momentum going. We serve all of British Columbia, from Vancouver to Victoria, Kelowna to Prince George, making counselling accessible wherever you are. The real shift happens when you stop seeing transitions as something happening to you and start seeing them as invitations to build the life you actually want.

Ready to explore what’s possible on the other side of this change? Contact Turning Tides today for a free 20-minute consultation to discuss how Life Transitions Counselling can support your next chapter. Reach out via email at info@turningtidestoday.com or call 778-321-6058.

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Benefits of Our Life Transitions Counselling

 

Discover Clarity and Confidence Through Life's Biggest Changes

Life transitions—whether navigating a career shift, relationship change, or personal identity exploration—can leave you feeling lost and overwhelmed. Our trauma-informed life transitions counselling serving Vancouver, Victoria, Kelowna, and communities across British Columbia helps you transform uncertainty into opportunity. Through personalized support integrating Internal Family Systems therapy, mindfulness practices, and practical life skills coaching, you'll develop the emotional resilience and self-awareness needed to move forward with purpose. Clients consistently report feeling more grounded within weeks, gaining the tools to make clearer decisions and rebuild their sense of identity during periods of profound change. Turning Tides Counselling & Life Coaching's compassionate approach creates a safe space where you can process difficult emotions, rediscover your strengths, and emerge from transitions with renewed confidence and direction.

Build Lasting Confidence and Self-Worth During Change

Life transitions often shake our sense of identity and self-worth, leaving us questioning who we are and where we belong. Our trauma-informed Life Transitions Counselling serving Vancouver, Burnaby, Surrey, and communities across British Columbia helps you rebuild confidence from the inside out. Through compassionate exploration using Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic approaches, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), you'll discover hidden strengths and develop a more compassionate relationship with yourself. Whether you're navigating career uncertainty, relationship changes, or personal reinvention, you'll gain practical tools for emotional regulation and learn to trust yourself again. This renewed self-assurance doesn't just help you survive transitions; it empowers you to make aligned decisions, set healthy boundaries, and step confidently into the next chapter of your life with clarity and purpose.

Building a Life Aligned with Your Deepest Values and Authentic Self

Life transitions offer a sacred opportunity for profound self-discovery and realignment with what truly matters to you. Our compassionate life transitions counselling serving Vancouver, Burnaby, Surrey, and communities throughout British Columbia helps you explore the deeper meaning behind change, connecting you with your core values and authentic purpose. Through our trauma-informed approach, you'll develop a holistic understanding of how mind, body, and spirit work together during times of transformation, creating lasting foundations for wellness that extend far beyond the transition itself. Turning Tides Counselling & Life Coaching's integrative support available across Metro Vancouver, Vancouver Island, and the Fraser Valley empowers you to not just survive change, but to emerge with greater clarity, resilience, and connection to the life you're truly meant to live.

Build Practical Skills for Managing Daily Challenges

Our trauma-informed life transitions counselling serving Vancouver and communities across British Columbia equips you with concrete tools you can use immediately in your everyday life. You'll learn specific emotional regulation techniques to handle stress at work, navigate difficult conversations with family members, and make confident decisions during uncertain times. Through our collaborative approach using Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic practices, and other evidence-based methods, you'll develop a personalized toolkit that helps you respond to challenges with clarity rather than overwhelm. These aren't abstract concepts—they're practical strategies you can apply when you're feeling anxious about a career change, processing the end of a relationship, or adjusting to becoming a parent, helping you move through transitions with greater ease and self-compassion.

Building Skills That Last Beyond Therapy

Our trauma-informed Life Transitions Counselling serving Vancouver, Burnaby, Surrey, and communities throughout British Columbia equips you with practical tools and insights that extend far beyond your sessions with us. You'll develop resilient coping strategies, deepen your self-awareness, and cultivate the confidence to navigate future transitions independently. This isn't just about getting through one challenging chapter. It's about discovering your inner strength and learning to trust yourself as life continues to unfold. The skills you build here become part of who you are, empowering you to face whatever comes next with clarity, courage, and self-compassion.

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Like bees that find their way home, we all seek a place of comfort and belonging. At Bee Here Counselling and Therapy, we create that safe space where you can simply ‘Be’ – authentically yourself. Together, we’ll explore your path to healing, pollinating your life with new perspectives and nurturing growth one step at a time. We serve Life Transitions Counselling to anyone within the Canadian provinces of British Columbia, Saskatchewan or Ontario with multiple types of insurances accepted and covered. 

 
 

Our Process for Life Transitions Counselling

Step 1

Step 1: Initial Contact and Free Consultation

  • Reach out at your own pace through our website, email, or phone to begin your journey.
  • Schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation to discuss your life transition and explore how our trauma-informed life transitions counselling serving British Columbia can support you.
  • Share your story in a safe, judgment-free space where you'll feel heard and understood from the very first conversation.
  • Learn about our collaborative approach using Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing, and other gentle therapeutic methods tailored to your unique needs.
  • Discuss practical details including online session options, flexible scheduling, and potential insurance coverage based on your individual policy.
  • Feel reassured knowing there's no pressure to commit during this consultation as we ensure our support aligns with your goals and comfort level.
Step 2

Step 2: Getting to Know You and Building Your Path Forward

  • We begin with open conversations about your life transition, exploring what brought you here today.
  • Together, we'll identify your unique strengths and values that will guide your healing journey forward.
  • You'll share your story at your own pace in a safe, trauma-informed space without pressure.
  • We collaboratively design your goals for counselling, focusing on what matters most to you during this transition.
  • Our trauma-informed life transitions counselling serving Vancouver, Victoria, Kelowna, and communities across British Columbia ensures personalized support tailored to your needs.
  • By the end of our initial sessions, you'll have a clear roadmap for moving forward with confidence and support.
Step 3

Step 3: Active Treatment Phase

  • Regular therapeutic sessions focus on processing life transition challenges through evidence-based approaches.
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) informed work helps you understand different parts of yourself during change.
  • Between-session email support provides guidance and encouragement as you navigate your transition journey.
  • Collaborative progress conversations ensure your therapy evolves with your changing needs and goals.
  • Skill-building exercises strengthen your resilience and coping strategies for managing uncertainty and stress.
  • Flexible session adjustments allow Our life transitions counselling serving Vancouver, Victoria, Kelowna, and communities across British Columbia to adapt as your situation evolves.
Step 4

Step 4: Progress & Completion

  • Celebrate meaningful growth as you recognize the resilience and skills you've developed throughout your life transition journey.
  • Develop a personalized maintenance plan that supports continued well-being and helps you navigate future changes with confidence.
  • Access flexible follow-up options including periodic check-in sessions or our affordable group therapy offerings serving Vancouver and throughout British Columbia.
  • Receive ongoing email support between sessions to reinforce progress and address emerging questions as you integrate new insights.
  • Transition at your own pace with the option to reduce session frequency, take breaks, or return when new transitions arise.
  • Maintain lasting change through the coping strategies, self-awareness, and emotional regulation skills you've built during our work together.

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Words of praise by my valued clients

"Compassionate, understanding, and incredibly skilled"

 Kotone creates a safe space for healing and growth. Her empathy and expertise make Kotone an invaluable guide on the journey to mental wellness.

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Neda Kerdar

Counsellor, RTC

“I endorse Kotone as a Registered Therapist”

 

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Matt Turner

Counsellor, RTC

"Turning Tides Counselling provided me with excellent support in a calm and welcoming environment"

Turning Tides Counselling provided me with excellent support in a calm and welcoming environment. Kot was professional, compassionate, and truly dedicated to helping me feel understood and supported.

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Jessie

Client

"Kotone provides a compassionate space for those navigating complex trauma."

Kotone provides a compassionate space for those navigating complex trauma. Through thoughtful modalities, helping clients feel truly seen, deeply understood, and gently supported as they reclaim themselves and embark on a path toward deep rooted healing.

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Daya

Fellow Counsellor

"Working with Kotone has truly been life changing."

Working with Kotone has truly been life changing. From our very first session, she created a safe, warm, and uplifting space where I felt heard, understood and safe. Her guidance has helped me navigate some of my most difficult moments in life with clarity and strength. She’s given me the tools to heal, grow, and approach my life with a healthier and calm mindset. I’ve learned so much about myself through her support, and I can confidently say I wouldn’t be in the place I am today in my healing journey without our sessions. I am so grateful for her and I continuously feel empowered. If you’re looking for a counsellor who is compassionate, insightful, a good listener, empathetic and genuinely invested in your overall well-being, I can’t recommend Kotone enough. 

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Jannat

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